Article
by Helmut G. Flasch, CEO Flasch Business Expansion
&
Inventor of the UN-Advertising concept.
It's
the 'doing-ness' my friend. People like to 'have'
but not to 'do'!
Because
all the 'everyone' who does NOT do it (whatever activity
that might be) simply only want the results of the
particular activity but not the effort required to
get the results.
Thus
no engagement, only inertia.
THUS
MOST PEOPLE DO NOTHING TO IMPROVE THEIR LIVES.
Those
are the people who want to be on the top of the mountain
but are not willing to learn how to climb. They are
not willing to spend money and time on learning how
to climb and they are not willing to spend time and
money to practice. They also are not willing to sweat
while climbing. Most of all, they are not willing
to get a scratch on their baby skin.
Also
most want only the money or the things which the money
buys - thus they often do not even like what they
are producing and only have their full attention on
whether they are getting the most money out from their
activities.
A
farmer who does not like corn and does not think that
corn should or could be eaten and who does not think
that eating or having corn is helping someone will
simply find all the farming activities very disgusting.
He probably would not find it worth to engage in any
activities at all.
Can
you see what I am trying to say?
When
ALL you are interested in is the rewards of an activity
and not the benefit to the recipients of the product
or products then you would have pretty much failed
before you start.
Is
there money in this or that job, business, etc is
the wrong question to ask!
Millionaires
and failures alike come from all jobs and businesses.
Another
reason why people never do the things which work well
for some, is that they listen to all the possible
pitfalls told to them usually (actually all the time)
from people who have never done it!
I
remembered when I bought my very first house in Denver,
Colorado after having been 2 years in the country,
and had only lived in Denver for 3 months and had
NO credit etc etc.
After
closing on the house but before moving in. I had people
telling me that I could not have possibly bought the
house due to the above reasons and then some.
They
told me that probably I did not understand the contract
and only had leased or rented it. Denial at its best,
I guess!
A
similar situation occurred, after I bought my first
rental property after attending a $20 one-day real
estate seminar.
After
I had closed on the property with a purchase price
of $54,000 and only $700 down ( VA repossessed), I
was told by friends and neighbors of the new house
that the fix-up will cost $30,000 and that the property
then would probably worth $70,000, thus I would be
losing minimally $14,000. It scared the hell out of
me because it was my very last money that I had invested
and in fact I had to get all my fix-up supplies such
as paint and brushes and bathroom fixtures from Sears
where they cost up to TWO TIMES more than a discount
paint store! I had to buy from Sears because Sears
was the only one giving me credit (and thus making
the purchase even more expensive!)
I
fixed it for $5000 (all on credit due to NO MONEY
AT ALL) and the property appraised for $87,000. I
could (and did) get a second mortgage for about $16,000
and was in business to continue to pay my Sears credit
card, invest a bit in my catering business and buy
another 2 properties.
A
year later I owned 14 properties and one of them was
a restaurant for $700,000 -- which I needed because
my catering business was growing at the same time
and I needed a big space.
Why
does not 'everyone' do it when an immigrant can do
it in just 3 years???
You
see, I did not know it could not be done. I was lucky
enough to have not asked anyone, neither for the first
house nor for the first rental property, before buying.
Just 'luck' because they might have talked me out
of it! After all, they all have had a few more years
over me and were 'experienced' with the local situations
etc.
The
moral of the story is: to do anything is better than
to wait!
Thus
being successful is a question of attitude all the
way!
From
start to the end it has little to do with intelligence
but only with the way you look at the glass of water
- half full or half empty.
If
smartness and intelligence have anything to do with
being successful, it is having enough smartness or
intelligence to know that one must
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Have
in mind to produce something one wants other
people to have because it helps them.
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Realize that one must first learn and pay the
dues by doing and only by doing
because any and all theoretical knowledge are
just that - theory!
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One
must have the guts to risk money sometimes,
reputation or whatever it might be to you. The
fear of losing and a compulsion to never lose
is sickening at least and will keep people in
inertia and with a life which at best is boring
and at worst right down disastrous.
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To
achieve all of the above, one must have trust
in other people. Anyone I have seen not trusting
others has a quite difficult existence not only
financially but in basic living, period. And I
have noticed that the ones who have difficulties
to trust others really do not trust themselves
either. Instead of trusting themselves and knowing
that any ideas of themselves could not be all
that bad, they went for the advice of their friends,
peers and neighbors who in turn only tell them
to be 'careful'. People who trust themselves would
be perfectly willing to be wrong a few times because
they would know that they are right just a bit
more frequently than wrong and thus success is
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I am constantly amazed at how often I hear people
quoting that Babe Ruth has had more strike outs than
any other player yet he was the #1 home run hitter
as well.
His
batting average was about as good as the average of
other good players.
So,
how can he succeed so incredibly extraordinarily?
He
was willing to swing that bat at any time in any situation.
No such statement like 'I feel not so good today,
or I am tired', etc. No, he just stood up to the plate!
People
who know how to quote a story or stories from the
book "Rich Dad Poor Dad' by Robert T Kiyosaki
and yet who are not somewhat successful or still waiting
for someone else to get them out of their boring,
money-less, unadventurous lives shows only one thing:
they simply only 'want' and not willing to give.
Giving
can be in the forms of:
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Time
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Money
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Risk
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Hard
work
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Losing
- whether it is money or reputation - in fact
I have the impression that so many people are
more concerned of what their friends, family
members, peers, golf buddies say if they do
something which does not work out - more so
than the pain of the actual money loss.
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Trust
that other people do know things which one does
not know of and that knowledge is worth money-
lots of it in most cases.
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Since
I have mentioned Robert T. Kiyosaki I might as well
end up with a story from his book 'Rich Dad Poor Dad':
The
Guy sitting with Firewood in his arms on a cold freezing
night, and he is yelling at the pot-bellied stove,
"when you give me some heat then I will put some
wood in."
And
when it comes to money, love, happiness, sales, all
one needs to remember is first to give what you wanted
and it will come back in droves.
If
you think that the stove story is an abstract example
and that the 'live business world' is somewhat different,
then I am telling you that as a business and marketing
consultant as well as a investor and as a worker who
worked in 12 different countries for others as well
as for myself, I see people sitting in front of cold
and empty bank accounts and living an unfulfilled
life all the time.
They
want to "TRY before embarking" -- they want
to have proof that it works for them by looking if
it has worked for others (even though because of the
difference in attitude and know-how whether it worked
for others has little or no bearing on whether it
will work for oneself). In short they want to receive
before giving and thus most of them keep waiting and
waiting and get unhappier and more tired, and more
fixated in their way. They keep waiting -- after all,
they must prove that their waiting was the right thing
to do by even more waiting.
Life
passes them by and then they pass on to the young
generation their hard-earned knowledge which is this:
"Me too, I wanted to conquer and change the world,
but as you grow older you realize that it is not so
easy and that life hands you the cards it wants!!"
What
balderdash that is - the words of a person who never
started to even think of how HE can be in control!!
SO
HERE YOU HAVE THE ANSWER WHY MOST PEOLE DO NOT DO
THE THINGS WHICH ARE DEEMED TO BE GOOD.
98
% OF PEOPLE ON THIS PLANET ARE KNOWN TO BE CAREFUL,
ANALYTICAL, PRUDENT, RESPONSIBLE, BUT OF COURSE, IF
YOU LOOK A BIT CLOSER YOU WILL SEE THAT THOSE ARE
WORDS USED TO HIDE PROCRASTINATION OR REASONS TO NOT
HAVE TO ACT!
No
courage, no glory could be the short version of it.
Maybe
people rather do nothing so they won't even have to
fail.
Hope
you start 'doing' instead of worrying whether "things
" will work out - they often won't - but they
surely never will if you never do.
Helmut
G. Flasch
CEO Flasch Business Expansion